Word Meaning
मलना
malna
Meaning
To rub, chafe, or wring hands in grief and regret.
Detailed Meaning
Literally meaning to rub or frictionally massage, in classical poetry it predominantly figures in idioms of remorse such as 'kaf-e-afsos malna' or 'haath malna' (wringing the hands in grief). In this verse, rubbing the palms in despair over unfulfilled desire ironically becomes the very pledge of renewed yearning. It vividly captures the physical gesture of helpless regret and anguish.
Etymology
From Sanskrit 'mardana' (rubbing, crushing) through Prakrit 'maddana', leading to Hindustani 'malnā'.
Usage
In the ghazal tradition, 'malna' is conventionally combined with words for palms or hands to materialize the gesture of utter remorse.
Examples
Wringing hands in sorrow after the moment slipped away.
Rubbing the palms in quiet despair and longing.