Word Meaning
बहलाओ
bahlao
Meaning
Do not amuse, beguile, distract, or console (imperative form).
Detailed Meaning
In classical Urdu poetry, 'bahlao' is the imperative form of the verb 'bahlana', meaning to beguile, amuse, or pacify a restless or grieving heart. In this sher, the poet urges companions not to distract or falsely comfort him with stories of others' union, as such consolations are deceptive illusions. It connotes an attempt to coax someone away from sorrow using transient amusements.
Etymology
Sanskrit 'विह्वल' (vihvala) or Prakrit roots related to distracting/diverting the mind, developed into Hindustani 'बहलाना' (bahlānā).
Usage
In the ghazal tradition, 'dil bahlana' typically refers to vain attempts by the lover or his well-wishers to soothe the pangs of longing.
Examples
Do not beguile my grieving heart with false promises.
Beguile your sorrow with wine and song.