Word Meaning
बैठना
baiṭhnā
Meaning
To sit; to keep company with or associate with others.
Detailed Meaning
Literally meaning to take a seat, in classical poetry this verb frequently denotes frequenting a gathering or keeping company. In this couplet, it refers to attending the assembly of strangers or rivals ('ghair'). The poet reflects that being seated among rivals does not necessarily degrade the beloved's grace, just as roses inevitably sit surrounded by thorns.
Etymology
Sanskrit उपविशति (upaviśati) via Prakrit बइट्ठ (baiṭṭha) to Hindustani बैठना / بیٹھنا.
Usage
In Urdu poetry, 'ग़ैरों में बैठना' (sitting among strangers/rivals) is a standard trope signifying infidelity, aloofness, or social circumstance.
Examples
Sitting in the rival's assembly wounds the faithful lover.
Come sit beside me and share your grief.