Word Meaning
बे-इल्तिफ़ाती
be-iltifaati
Meaning
Indifference, lack of attention, disregard, or cold neglect.
Detailed Meaning
The compound 'be-iltifaati' denotes an intentional lack of attention, disregard, or cold indifference shown by a beloved. In this couplet, the speaker remarks that the beloved's nonchalance is well-founded because the beloved is completely assured of the lover's hidden, unwavering devotion. It encapsulates the classical poet's acceptance of the beloved's apparent aloofness.
Etymology
Persian prefix 'be-' (without) combined with Arabic 'iltifāt' (turning toward, attention, courtesy) and the Persian/Urdu abstract nominal suffix '-ī'.
Usage
In classical Urdu ghazal, it frequently depicts the conventional haughtiness and emotional detachment of the beloved toward the poet-lover.
Examples
The lover suffered silently under the beloved's persistent indifference.
No amount of devotion could soften such cold disregard.