Word Meaning
पेश-दस्ती
pesh-dastī
Meaning
Taking the initiative, making the first move, or striking first boldly.
Detailed Meaning
Literally meaning 'advancing with the hand', pesh-dasti refers to taking the initiative, pre-empting, or making the first aggressive or bold gesture. In Ghalib's verse, it signifies initiating playful physical liberties or rough play with the beloved. The poet self-deprecatingly admits that the delicate beloved was not prone to violence, but rather it was he himself who audaciously provoked it.
Etymology
Persian compound formed from 'pesh' (before, forward) + 'dast' (hand) + abstract noun suffix '-i'.
Usage
In classical Urdu ghazal, it is frequently used to describe either pre-emptive aggression in rivalry or bold, forward behavior in romantic banter.
Examples
To strike first in battle is considered pesh-dasti.
He blamed himself for the playful pesh-dasti in love.