Word Meaning
तग़ाफ़ुल-शिआर
taghaful-shi'ar
Meaning
Habitually neglectful, indifferent, or feigning inattention towards a lover.
Detailed Meaning
This compound refers to someone whose habitual conduct or hallmark is neglect and pretended indifference. In the given couplet, it characterizes earthly idols or beloveds ('butaan') as being inherently prone to forgetting and aloofness. It captures the classical poetic tension of loving a partner who deliberately ignores the admirer.
Etymology
Compound of Arabic 'taghāful' (feigned neglect or ignorance) and Arabic 'shi'ār' (habit, manner, or distinguishing mark).
Usage
In classical ghazals, beloveds are routinely addressed as 'taghaful-shi'ar' to accentuate their cruel yet captivating coquetry of feigned negligence.
Examples
the gaze of an indifferent beloved feigning ignorance
one accustomed to neglect will never heed the heart's cry
