Word Meaning
ठहरवाते
thaharwaate
Meaning
To cause to halt, stay, pause, or settle down.
Detailed Meaning
This is the imperfective participle form of the causative verb 'thaharwaana', meaning to induce someone to pause, linger, or remain composed. In the context of the couplet, it signifies an earnest attempt to calm, placate, or hold onto the beloved through manifold ways. It conveys patience, restraint, and an endeavor to bring tranquility to a restless heart or lover.
Etymology
Sanskrit 'sthirīkṛ' (to stabilize/make firm) through Prakrit 'thira' into Hindustani 'thaharna' / 'thaharwana'.
Usage
In classical poetry, causative forms of 'thaharna' are frequently used to express futile or desperate attempts to steady a restless heart or to prolong the elusive stay of the beloved.
Examples
So bhi hazaar tarah se thaharwaate hain hum
Dil-e-muztar ko kisi taur thaharwaate hain