Word Meaning
खाएँ
khaayen
Meaning
May eat or consume; in idioms, to suffer or be duped.
Detailed Meaning
Literally the subjunctive plural/polite form of 'खाना' (to eat), this verb frequently functions as a light verb in idioms. In this couplet, it combines with 'धोका' in the idiom 'धोका खाना' (to be deceived or misled). The speaker reasons that since the beloved shows no trace of interest or rivalry, there is not even a basis for self-deception.
Etymology
From Sanskrit खादति (khādati, 'to chew, eat') via Prakrit खादि (khādi).
Usage
In classical ghazal poetry, 'खाना' is extensively paired with abstract nouns like 'ग़म' (grief) or 'धोका' (deceit) to signify passively enduring emotional distress.
Examples
How can we be deceived when there is no hope left?
Whether we consume poison or endure sorrow, it is all the same.